Selena Gomez has long been a beacon of authenticity, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. From her iconic ballad “The Heart Wants What It Wants” to her latest heartfelt release, the “Only Murders in the Building” star recently decided to share a glimpse of her romantic journey. Now, her blossoming relationship with music producer Benny Blanco has taken center stage, hinting at a genuine and surprising love story for fans.
Selena Gomez made the first move
Gomez, 32, doesn’t wait for love to strike. According to Benny Blanco, whom she has been dating since 2023, she initiated their romance. with a Nov. 19 livestream time Kai Sinat, Blanco shared how the “Wizards of Waverly Place” alum confidently asked her out. “He asked me,” revealed the 36-year-old producer. “We were just talking, and then she was like, ‘Do you want to get dinner?'”
© Amy SussmanBut what makes the story even sweeter is how Gomez managed to keep Blanco guessing during their initial outing. “We just went and got a drink first, and I didn’t even realize we were on a date,” she explained. “She was like, ‘I’d wear something different on this date.’ And I’m like, ‘Wait, we’re on a date?’ I had no idea!”
It wasn’t until their second hangout that Blanco caught his feelings “I was like, ‘Yo, I think she likes me,'” she gushed. “Then I literally kissed her and then the rest is history.”
© Amy SussmanA relationship rooted in friendship
Now, more than a year into their relationship, Gomez and Blanco have developed a bond that goes beyond romance. “He’s my best friend — a real best friend,” Blanco said, emphasizing their deep connection. Gomez echoed these sentiments, describing their relationship as her most secure and meaningful.
In an interview with “The Hollywood Reporter,” published Nov. 20, the singer opened up about why this romance feels so different. “I think it’s the safest I’ve ever felt in one,” he said. “And I see a future with this person. And when you put a little bit out there, people aren’t as hungry to hunt you down.”
© @SelenaGomezLove in the spotlight
Although Gomez has been notoriously private about her past relationships, including Justin Bieber And Abel Makkonen TesfayeBetter known as The Weeknd, this time, he’s more willing to share glimpses of his love life with fans. From sweet social media posts to public outings, her openness indicates a new level of confidence and happiness.
Still, Gomez is careful to maintain boundaries. “There’s a lot to my relationship that people don’t see, it’s just me,” she explained, highlighting the balance she strikes between being in the public eye and preserving intimacy.
